July 2023 Update

It seems like there’s a lot to talk about this month, so get ready!

 

I mentioned last month that Levi had gotten a new kitten that he named Lord Licorice.  We’ve all been enjoying him, but he’s especially a hit when the grandkids come over.  Here are some pictures and a video of his latest antics, including a couple that demonstrate some hot weather we’ve had here lately.

 

He runs around like a crazy thing, then crashes. Here he found a breezy spot on a hot day

Here's Licorice and Zuzu trying to stay cool on a 90 degree day

He sacked out in my arms while I was watching TV

Alex and Alma made a house for him to play in

When my kids were little, I used to go out with them for dessert for their birthday, just Dad and the birthday boy or girl.  Somewhere along the line, we stopped doing that, so I decided this year to start it back up with the local grandkids and my unmarried kids that are still home, but we’re doing it on their half birthdays to avoid the busyness that’s typical around their actual birthday.  I plan on doing something similar with my far away grandkids when we visit them.

 

Anyway, in June, it was Josie’s turn.  I don’t think I mentioned it here, but I did take Ivy out in January and Alma out in April.  Josie and I went to a local ice cream shop and had a great time.

 

Krista got a wonderful opportunity to visit Kortney and her family in Minnesota late in June.  She had a fantastic and relaxing time visiting with them and catching up with that family that we see way too rarely.  While she was gone, we tried to fend for ourselves here at home.  We mostly ate things that are simple to make since our expert cook was gone, but we were really proud of one meal where we went all out with grilled chicken, sweet corn, mac salad and chips.  All four of us (Zach, Jem, Levi, and myself) pitched in to make that happen, and it turned out really delicious.

 

Our one impressive meal

I got lots of nice wishes from my wife and kids for Fathers’ Day, along with some really nice presents.  The kids pitched in together to get me a recliner of my very own, but really everyone uses it, especially the pets.  Krista and I got kayaks for my present, since I’d rather kayak with her than alone.  We’ve only taken them out once so far, but we’re planning some days off work when we can go to local streams and have an adventure.  Hopefully not too exciting of an adventure.

 

Krista kayaking

Greg kayaking

My recliner

Our Independence Day was actually relatively quiet this year.  We went and saw the fireworks our local town does, but really that was about it.  Unless I’m forgetting something, which, if so, I’m sure someone will point out to me.

 

In July, it was time for the dessert date with Hazel, Alex, and Jem.  They all agreed on a time and place, so we all went together to another local ice cream place that also had things to play on.  Jem and I enjoyed watching Alex and Hazel have fun together.

 

Our biggest news this month is the engagement of our daughter, Amelia, to Ben White.  They met when Amelia moved to Louisville and starting working at UPS with Cai and Zach.  Ben worked there too, and she was blessed to find a godly and handsome man!  They are planning a September wedding in the Louisville area.

 

Photo credit to Ben

Kevin (Hannah’s husband) has been wanting to try a seafood boil since we had one at Outer Banks.  Well, he finally got a chance, and we locals got together to see how he did.  We all gave him a thumbs up, and he is looking forward to tweaking his ingredients and trying it again.  We’re all looking forward to that too!

 

Just this past weekend was the Wilson/Dickinson reunion at Lighthouse Christian Campground in Barker, NY.  This is the reunion of Krista’s father’s siblings and their families.  Krista and I rented a cabin there for a couple of relaxing and fun nights and really enjoyed seeing extended family, good weather (until it was time to leave when we got soaked with rain while packing to go), beautiful Lake Ontario views, delicious food, and fun pickleball matches.  We also got a tour of the family farm where her Dad grew up.

 

Ansa and I on the trailer touring the farm

Farm tour

While we were there, Krista’s brother, Terrelle, showed me a plaque he had found at Niagara-On-The-Lake in Ontario, Canada.  He knows I am the great-great-grandson of Hudson Taylor, and he had learned that Taylor had spoken at the Niagara Bible Conference in Niagara-On-The-Lake, and that there was a plaque commemorating that fact.  He searched diligently and found it and shared the picture with me.  Krista’s parents and grandparents were associated with Niagara Bible Conference in Olcott, NY, and Terrelle is convinced there must be some connection between the two NBCs since they are so close in location and time to each other.  He is researching and promised to share what he finds.

 

Finally, I am asking for prayer again.  It seems it is my season to go through physical challenges.  I’m still dealing with the bodily control issues caused by my prostate surgery, so I appreciate your ongoing prayers for that recovery.  Also, for years I’ve had an intermittent swallowing problem that’s been treated by my GI doctor doing a endoscopy and dilation that stretches the sphincter at the top of my stomach.  I had that procedure done in January, but it didn’t seem as effective as it has been in the past.  Usually after that’s been done, I’m good for several years.  But this time, I’m still having occasional swallowing issues even though I just had that done.  Anyway, I’m going in again today for him to take another look at my throat to see if he can figure out why it didn’t work this time.  So, I’d appreciate your prayers that God would give him wisdom and knowledge to know how to help me, and that He would give me the grace to honor Him with however this turns out.  Thank you!

 

Talk to you in August!

 

June 2023 Update

Thank you for praying about the insurance issue with my PT.  God graciously provided that their services would be “in network” so they are much more affordable for me.  I’m down to once a week with them now, so that’s progress.

 

On May 20, my barbershop chorus, The Chorus of the Genesee, had our annual show.  It was our first one after a few years break due to an interfering virus and other issues, and it was a lot of fun.  We shared the stage with a local women’s chorus and several quartets, and I think it went quite well.

Our celebration cake from the cast party

On Memorial Day weekend, we had get-togethers with the local families every day.  It was special because Amelia and her boyfriend, Ben, came up from Kentucky to join us.  OK, that was really the motivation behind all the get-togethers, to be able to spend the maximum amount of time with them.

 

Those of you in our area may have experienced this too, but we had several days with the smell of smoke in the air and poor air quality due to the Canadian wildfires.  It didn’t make anybody sick or anything—it was just a bit of inconvenience for a couple of days in that we didn’t want to be outside if we didn’t have to be.

That's not clouds, that's smoke

That's what the sun looked like through the smoke

On June 10, my granddaughters, Ansa and Alma, had their dance recitals.  They were totally adorable, and it was a lot of fun to watch them enjoy dancing.

 

I mentioned back in March that our cat, Princess Lolly, died.  My son, Levi, was probably the closest to Lolly, since she slept in his room.  Well, on June 14, he and I went to pick up a kitten for him, that he has named Lord Licorice (do you follow the theme here?).  He is really cute and playful, and we’re all enjoying him.

 

This past weekend, our local families went camping at Hamlin Beach State Park.  Because of the issues I’m still dealing with, I went home at night, but I spent all day with them, and we all had fun playing on the beach, riding bikes, playing at playgrounds, eating delicious camping food, and spending time outdoors and with family.  Overall, we had great weather, and a fantastic time.

 

Thanks for reading, and I’ll talk to you next month!

 

 

 

May 2023 Update

I can’t think of a lot that happened in the past month, but that may be because I’m still focused on my surgery recovery, so we’ll have to see if I have to send out an update to the update again this month.

 

As my update to last month’s update said, I am recovering from my surgery and doing pretty well really.  The pain is no big deal at this point.  I’m not taking any pain meds anymore, and I only feel quite minor pain and only occasionally.  The bigger issue, without getting too graphic, is the recovery of my bodily control.  From all I’ve read, that can take a year or more, so I’ve only begun that process.  I am seeing some progress, however, even if it’s only a little.

 

My urologist and surgeon, Dr. Bloom, referred me for PT for my pelvic floor to try to help with this situation.  I found out that there are very few PTs in my area that will do pelvic floor therapy for men.  And we’re currently waiting to see how my insurance will process the claims.  None of the three places that do this therapy showed up in my “in network” providers for my insurance, but the place I chose, although the business name doesn’t show up, several of the therapists do show as in network.  So, we’re not sure if they’ll process it in network or out.  Please pray with us that insurance covers it in network.

 

We celebrated the mother of my children on Mothers’ Day with gifts and cards.  Hannah and Kevin invited us over to share in their Mothers’ Day brunch that Kevin made, and it was delicious!  Bacon, two kinds of sausage, eggs, fruit, pastries, and potatoes.  Yummy!  It wasn’t a very warm day, but it was sunny, and sitting on their back deck with the sun bouncing off their house, it felt wonderful.

 

I think that’s it, so I’ll stop there.  Thanks again for all your prayers for me!

 

April 2023 Update

We are go for my surgery tomorrow, so, again, thanks for praying for me!  Hopefully, when I write next month, I’ll be able to tell you about the success and quick recovery.

 

Now back to the news of the past month.

 

On March 18, my son-in-law, Bernie (Abigail’s husband) and I participated in a Euchre tournament our church ran.  We had a good time and finished above the middle of the 40 or so teams, so that was good.  I hope we can do this again sometime!

 

We enjoyed Easter with all the local families and tons of great food.  The resurrection of Jesus is what separates Christianity from all other world religions.  We serve a risen God!

 

Finally, this past Friday night, Zach, Jem, the Mickles and myself went to see Tim Hawkins perform.  It was at The Chapel in Getzville, NY, which is a very big church.  Our church is big and holds about 1200 people.  This one I would guess holds closer to 2000 people.  It wasn’t full but there weren’t a lot of empty seats.

 

Anyway, Tim was hilarious as usual.  If you want a taste of the fun we had, you can check out his videos on YouTube or his website.

 

Waiting for Tim to make us laugh

Thanks again for your prayers, and we’ll talk next month.

 Web bonus pictures of snow, and playing with a wild animal app:

No, there really wasn't a lion in the backyard with the grandkids. April Fool!

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I’m using the excuse that I was very focused on my surgery, but I forgot a major event of the month.

 

Zach moved back home from Kentucky!  He got here just before Easter.  He had been there almost a year and enjoyed (mostly) working at UPS with Cai and later Amelia.  He was able to get a job with UPS here doing about the same things he had done there, and he’s adjusting to living back at home.  We are very glad he’s here!

 

Also, my surgery went well, and I thank you all for your prayers.  I am home recovering now and feeling pretty good.  The pain meds help me feel comfortable most of the time, but coughing hurts a lot.  Thanks for continued prayers too!

 

March 2023 Update

Let’s see…  What fun or interesting things have we done since I wrote last that you might care about?  It’s hard to know sometimes, because some of you would want to know every minute of our days (OK maybe not EVERY minute), but others might just want highlights, and then there’s probably some in-between.

On February 25, Krista and I had a wonderful dinner out with Hannah and Kevin.  They took us to Tournedos Steakhouse in Rochester, and the food was excellent.  We all got different kinds of steak, and it was melt-in-your-mouth good.  Besides it was tons of fun to have a nice evening with just the four of us.

 

In sad news, our cat, Princess Lolly, died on February 24.  We had her for almost 14 years, and she was a great cat.  We will miss her.

In weather news, we’ve been making up for a pretty mild winter so far.  We’ve had a few fairly significant snowstorms so it actually looks like typical Western New York here.  Although today and yesterday are in the 50s, so now a lot of it is melting again.

Mid-way through cleaning up after one of our storms

All cleaned up!

Our best news from this past month was a visit from Zach and Amelia earlier this month.  Also, Amelia’s boyfriend, Ben, came so we got to meet him and get to know him.  We did lots of fun things with them, like eating Rochester foods (like garbage plates and chicken wings), visiting local sites (like Holley Falls, Lake Ontario, and Niagara Falls), and lots of family times (like a karaoke party).

 

Finally, thanks for praying for me about my prostate cancer.  I now have a surgery date:  on April 18 I will have my prostate removed to hopefully get rid of all the cancer, so thank you for continuing to pray.

 

Thanks for reading again, and Happy St. Patrick’s Day!  🍀

 

February 2023 Update

As I was thinking about this, I couldn’t come up with a whole lot for this past month, but there was a couple of newsworthy (in my opinion) items.

 

Our weather lately is the typical craziness for western New York.  This past Wednesday it was sunny and in the 60s.  Today it’s in the 20s and there’s snow on the ground.

 

Early in February, my barbershop chorus took part in a prism style concert with several choruses at the Eastman Theatre here in Rochester.  In case you don’t know, prism style means the choruses are scattered all around the concert hall (front, balcony, sides, etc.), and they each get up and do their 5 minutes of singing from where they are with no applause or speaking in between.  It’s pretty cool, and I really enjoyed being a part of it.  We got many compliments on how entertaining our singing was.  Several of the groups were more classical, and ours, of course, being barbershop, is more light-hearted and fun.

 

For Valentine’s Day, I skipped my chorus rehearsal and had a nice, quiet evening at home with my valentine.  She made me a delicious supper and decadent dessert, and we watched a romantic movie together, all with our “third wheel” daughter Jem (Levi was at work).  I hope Jem liked it, because we had a great time with her and each other.  My chorus friends called us from the rehearsal I skipped and serenaded us with a love song too!

 

Finally, I know most, if not all, of you believe in the power of prayer, and so I’m giving you this news so you can pray for me.  I found out a few weeks ago that I have prostate cancer.  I’ve had a bone scan, and, praise the Lord! the cancer is only in the prostate.  I see my urologist on Tuesday, and I hope to come away from that with a treatment plan now that we know how limited the cancer is.  I’ve heard all the good things about prostate cancer being very treatable and localized, and that the vast majority of men who have prostate cancer die of something else, so I don’t really feel worried or anxious.  Besides, I know my life is in God’s perfect hands, and I’ve prayed for a long time that I just want Christ to be glorified in me, whether by my life or death (Philippians 1:20).  So, anyway, please pray for me and my family to have His peace and wisdom as we make decisions and go through this.  Thank you!

 

January 2023 Update

Our top story this month is Christmas!  We had a wonderful time with our local family and two special surprise guests!  Amelia and Zach surprised Krista and me (the rest of the people here knew) by flying up from Louisville, Kentucky, and spending Christmas with us.  That was the best gift because it was unexpected!

Our Christmas cards, arranged into tree shape by my creative wife

After Christmas, Carissa’s family and Caitlin’s family came to spend some of the holiday break with us, and that was tons of busy fun.  The local families came over as much as possible, and we spent many fun hours together eating, playing games, and just spending time with people we don’t get to see enough.

Cousins! Carissa's daughter, Ruby (from Philadelphia) holds her cousin Truman, Ella's son (from Hamlin, NY)

In weather, just before Christmas we had an actual, real live, blizzard!  We didn’t get a ton of snow with it, but the winds were very strong, and it felt like they were coming right through the sides of our house.  You might have heard about the amount of snow the Buffalo area got, but we got a lot less than they did.  This video doesn't really do it justice, but it may give you a little idea of the windy snow we had.

 

In sports, GO BILLS!

 

May you all have a blessed 2023!