Friday, June 17, 2022

June 2022 Update

Well, our nest is a little smaller now, but still not quite empty.  The weekend after we returned from Outer Banks, Zach moved to Louisville, Kentucky.  He rented a moving van, and I drove his car, and we drove there on Friday, May 20.  Louisville wasn’t picked at random—that’s where Cai and Amy live, and he got an apartment in the same building where they live.  Cai had let him know he could probably do that, and that he could help him get a job where he works at UPS, and Zach was ready for a different adventure in life.

Those of you who read this web version get bonus content that I forgot to put in the email!  I know, you're so excited.  We got there Friday night and unloaded the truck so Zach could return it.  Then Saturday we helped Zach a bit with setting things up, but mostly we just spent time together.  We went for a walk at a nearby park, and got Chicago style deep dish pizza.

Sunday I went to church with them, where Amy recruited me to sing in her choir, and we enjoyed worship together.  Then I was supposed to fly back home that afternoon, but my flight got canceled due to bad weather.  So I ended up staying an extra night, and flew out Monday morning.


Lunch at Panda Express on the way there

We made it!  Greeted by Cai and Amy

Amy had supper ready for us.  Yummy!

Going for a walk at a nearby park

There was a deep dish Chicago style pizza place nearby!

I slept in the baby's room--it's all ready for her!

I went to church with them before returning home



So now we have a little, perfect family of four:  parents, one girl and one boy, just like normal people.  Personally, I think “normal” is overrated.

 

In contrast to that, besides the 32 of us getting together earlier in May, our local family got together for Memorial Day at Ella and Cody’s.  We did our usual good food, yard games, and lots of just enjoying each other, especially enjoying watching the kids play together in the pool, on the swings, and just all over in the yard.  The weather was perfect here that day, and that’s always a treat.

 

Other than that, I guess I don’t really have anything to report from our corner of the world.  I hope all is going well with you, and you are enjoying your summer weather, as we are.

 

Wednesday, May 18, 2022

May 2022 Update

As I reviewed my calendar for the last month since I wrote, it looks like there’s only one newsworthy event, but I think it will still take up about the usual amount of space.  Plus there are pictures!

 

Every couple of years, my whole family tries to get together for a big vacation.  Last time we did an Outer Banks vacation that got canceled by a hurricane and turned into a Hamlin vacation.  Last week, we had a large house rented in Outer Banks again for a wonderful week together with our whole family:  20 adults and 12 children.  The weather wasn’t very good—in fact our weather at home was better than what we got in OBX—but we know how to have fun even in lousy weather!

 

Ella and Amelia had come up with a plan for who would drive what so someone could pick up Kortney’s family at the Norfolk, VA, airport.  Krista and I drove Ella’s minivan, Ella and Cody drove Amelia’s SUV, and Amelia, Zach, Jem, and Levi drove Ella and Cody’s Tesla, so it became known as the “party car.” 😁

 

Krista and I left Friday morning, May 6, and drove to a hotel near Washington, DC.  We had a nice little mini-vacation alone time as a couple, even with the difficult traffic in places.  I guess that’s to be expected traveling on a work day and being near big cities during rush hour.  I don’t know why people are so inconsiderate as to be on the roads I want to drive on.

 

Saturday, May 7, we had plenty of time to get from our hotel to Norfolk to pick up Kortney’s family, so we found an outlet mall right near that airport, and did a little shopping but mostly just looked around.  We found a candy shop that we of course had to try, and it was really good.  Then we picked up the Rhodes, and all of us went to another hotel near the airport for that night because we couldn’t get in to the OBX house until Sunday.

Happy couple at the Outlet Mall

Sunday, May 8, was (I hope you all remembered!) Mothers’ Day, and when we stopped at a Wendy’s for lunch on our way to OBX, they had pink tablecloths on all of their tables.  We thought it was a nice touch.

With the Rhodes at Wendy's on Mothers' Day (Daisy is hiding behind Krista)

Finally everyone got to the big house in OBX, and the fun began!  Each family took turns making a big supper for everyone, Krista made pancakes for breakfast two of the days, and she and I made a hot dog picnic for one of the lunches with Rochester’s finest, Zweigles hot dogs.  Needless to say, we ate well all week, and not just at the regular meals, because our four youngest kids got together and provided snacks and special drinks for everyone for the week.  I don’t know about the rest of the family, but I have about 10 pounds to work off.

 

The big announcement of the week was Cai and Amy telling everyone about their first child being due in September!  And, if you know them you know that they wouldn’t just tell us.  Cai had run a Survivor game for our family a while ago, and he said he had one more challenge left over from that for us to do.  It was a word search, and once you’d found all the words, the remaining unused letters would spell a special message that announced their baby.  Then they had us all guess the gender before telling us it would be a girl.  So we have Ella due in late July, Abigail due in late August, and Amy due in late September.  That will make 15 grandchildren for us, 11 girls and 4 boys! 😮

 

As I said, we didn’t have the best weather while we were there.  I ran into a fellow Bills fan who worked at a convenience store (I was wearing a Bills hoodie), and he asked me if I lived in OBX now.  I told him, no, we just came for your great weather, and he apologized. 😂 However, it did get better as the week went on, and we were able to spend some time once or twice at the beach enjoying the ocean.

The view from our bedroom on a rainy day with a stormy ocean

Playing at the beach!






Levi and I took the Rhodes back to the airport on Saturday, May 11, then we all left the big house on Sunday.  Krista and I went to the ocean one last time before heading out.  The Sommers and we traded cars so they had their own van for the ride home, and we drove Amelia’s SUV.  We again ran into some bad traffic on the way home.  We had planned to drive all the way home on Sunday since I had to work on Monday, and the rest of the families made it, but Krista and I decided to stop in northern Pennsylvania.  The mountains north of Williamsport were very foggy, rainy, and dark, and it was just too stressful driving.  We don’t need more stress in our lives, but if any of you do, I recommend driving on Route 15 in northern PA at night in the fog.  We just missed a deer by a few feet.  She was just standing on the side of the road looking like she wanted to cross, but God gracefully kept her where she was as we drove by.  I didn’t see her until we were right next to her, and it really got my heart going.

Saying goodbye to the ocean

We woke up early Monday morning and got home by about 7:30AM.  My nice boss had agreed to let me work from home on Monday, so that made that day a little easier.

 

Now we’re back into the regular routine.  Krista mowed our long lawn on Monday and Tuesday, so that’s looking normal again, although it was a bigger job than usual.

 

I am very thankful to God for allowing us all to be together again and for giving all of us safe travels to and from OBX.

 

Talk to you in June!

 

Monday, April 18, 2022

April 2022 Update

It doesn’t seem like there’s a lot of activity to tell about in this last month, but what there is, is this:

On April 9, our barbershop chorus district had its Spring Contest.  It was the first time in a couple of years that we’ve had one, and it was really fun to get together and sing again.  Our chorus didn’t do particularly well, but we had a good time.

Then that night, our local families gathered at Hannah and Kevin’s house for a Seder meal celebration.  They did a great job reminding us of the Jewish traditions that are the underpinning of our Christian faith, and how Jesus fulfilled them as our eternal Passover lamb.  It was a really good preparation for the Easter season!

Our church had a really meaningful Good Friday service, and then a moving Easter morning service.  Ella and I sang in a choir with the praise team leading music, but, in my opinion, the best part of the service was what they called Cardboard Testimonies.  They had real testimonies from real members of our church cut down to just a few sentences that could be put on the front and back of a sign board.  They told how Jesus had changed their lives as one of our men sang about the mercy of God.  If you’re interested in seeing it, you can check it out here Peace Be Unto You | Sun Morning | Pastor Kevin - YouTubeThe testimonies I’m referring to start at about 33:45 (if you look before that, you can see Ella and I in the choir/praise team).

That afternoon our local families got together for Easter dinner and egg hunts.  One egg hunt was designed by Abigail and Bernie as their baby’s gender reveal.  All the eggs they hid had yellow Peeps in them, except for one, which was pink!  Their baby daughter is expected in a few months!

I guess that’s it for this month.  Our weather has been crazy with a day in the 70s followed closely by snow again, but that’s typical for western New York, so not really worth commenting on.  But I did anyway.

Until May!


Friday, March 18, 2022

March 2022 Update

As I looked at my pictures from this past month, I only have a picture of an interesting bird Krista and I saw in our back yard a couple of weeks ago. Is that worth posting? We decided it was probably a Cooper’s Hawk, maybe a juvenile. He was just sitting on the grass in our back yard, and then he flew away.
It seems like it was a pretty uneventful month. Krista, Jem, and I have formally joined the church we have been attending, First Bible Baptist, and we are contemplating how God wants us to be involved there. It’s a big church, which I never thought I’d want to be a part of, but I have been blessed by their focus on God’s Word and many opportunities to be a part of their family.

As an example, last Saturday, Kevin and I went to a men’s prayer breakfast there. We had a great breakfast as a large group (over 100 men!), and then we broke into smaller groups to pray for our church and each other. We ended up with two other men, one who had been at FBBC for many years, and one who just started coming. It was great to get fellowship with and get to know some people a little better.

Then that night, Cody and I joined a euchre tournament the church had. There were 43 teams, so 86 people for the tournament. It was lots of fun again meeting people, talking with them, and playing euchre. We started out strong, winning our first two games, but it was all downhill from there. We ended up near the bottom of the group, but we both had fun, and we’d do it again.

The five of us at home (Krista and I, Zach, Jem, and Levi) celebrated Pi day (3/14) with cottage pie for supper (like shepherd’s pie, but with ground beef), and a chocolate cream pie from Wegmans. Really it was just a good excuse to eat pie.

Yeah, I guess that’s about it. Maybe next month will be more exciting, but don’t count on it.

Thursday, February 17, 2022

February 2022 Update

Well, it was another heartbreaking playoff for us Bills fans.  I still think they are an excellent team that will contend for the title for several years yet without needing major changes, and that’s a definite improvement over the many years we endured.

 

I had to drop out of my barbershop quartet.  First, we lost our bass, who was a college student and got too busy with his education to continue, and then when we tried to reshuffle with a new bass, I couldn’t make the rehearsal times work that they wanted.  All good things in this life will eventually end, but I got to fulfill a lifelong dream of mine to sing in a men’s quartet, and I am forever thankful for that.

 

We had planned for Krista, Jem, and I to travel to Philadelphia to meet our new granddaughter back in January, but had to postpone because of Covid hitting us, as I mentioned last month.  Our new plan was to leave on February 4, but we had to wait one more day because of a big snowstorm that hit that morning.  We eventually got there a day later than planned, but we had a great time seeing Caitlin and Ben, Carissa and Matt and their kids, and meeting Lena!  She is a beautiful baby, and we loved helping hold her and just helping Caitlin and Ben with things around the house or grocery shopping or whatever.  Of course, there’s pictures!  

Feb 4 snowstorm



Beautiful Lena



Also while we were there, I got the privilege of going with Carissa to her chorus rehearsal.  It was really fun to listen to them practice together, and I took two short videos (below) to whet your appetite.  Whet your appetite for what, you ask?  Well, if you’re anywhere near Messiah University near Harrisburg, PA, you might want to check out her chorus’s show coming up in March.

Carissa's Facebook post advertising their show

And here's the videos of their practice:




That’s all for now, so until March!

 

Tuesday, January 18, 2022

January 2022 Update

Happy New Year everyone!

 

We had a wonderful Christmas and New Year, in spite of Covid trying its best to impact us.  Several of my family caught it, and it hit both those of us who are vaccinated and those of us who are not, so whatever that means.  I personally did not catch it, nor did two others in my house, even though two others in my house did, so it seemed to be pretty random.  In my extended family who visited over the holidays, again, it hit some and skipped others.  So, in spite of all we know, we still don’t know everything.  Personally, as I heard someone say (I don’t remember who), I believe it is God reminding us Who is really in control, and it ain’t us.

Christmas Eve Dinner

Matt and Ruby climbing our tree

Visit from Santa!

Visiting a local playground - Josie and Cody

Krista

Gus and Kortney

Mat

Ella

I don't know who the person on the left is, but the other one is Daisy

Bea

Ella, Josie, and Hazel

Mat and Gus

Kortney, Daisy, Bea, Cody

Daisy

Kortney and Bea (in front of random citizens)

Ruby

Carissa, Cody, Ella

Alex

Alma and Ansa

Amelia and Regulus

Carissa and Alma (and Ruby's back in the purple coat)

Rhodes

Alex

Bernie was worn out and so was Zuzu

 

We’ve spotted a unique squirrel in our back yard recently—not pure white/albino, but whiter than any other we’ve ever seen.  I’d be curious to see if anyone else has seen one like that.



We got an early Christmas present with the birth of our 12th grandchild to Caitlin and Ben!  Arlene (Lena) Davonne Updegrove was born on December 21, and she is a delight to all.  Krista, Jem, and I will be traveling down to Philly early in February to visit and meet her.



That night, 12/21, I went Christmas Caroling with my chorus in the neighborhood around our rehearsal hall, and that was lots of fun and very well received, especially since that annual tradition had to be skipped last year.

 

On 12/26, our church did its Christmas service, and Ella and I sang in the choir they had for that special service.  Like I said back in November, singing praises to God in a choir is a special privilege.

 

Our weather has been pretty mild so far this winter.  My guess is that the biggest snow we’ve had so far was maybe 4-6 inches.  Until yesterday!  We got a nice storm overnight Sunday to Monday that dumped almost two feet on us.  I was glad I didn’t have to go to work (thanks MLK!) so I had most of the day to clear out the driveway.






I’ll end with a very happy remembrance of this past weekend’s CRUSHING of the Patriots by my Buffalo Bills.  I know some of you getting this are Kansas City Chiefs fans, but I’m hoping we can do as well next weekend against them.  I think our offenses are pretty similar, but I think our defense is better, but we’ll see how it all plays out on Sunday.  Here’s hoping next month’s update includes a Bills Super Bowl win!