Friday, January 17, 2025

January 2025 Update

She finally came!  As I mentioned last month, we have been eagerly awaiting the arrival of our 19th grandchild, and she finally came!  Faye Ariel White arrived to my daughter, Amelia, and her husband, Ben, on December 20, and everyone is doing great.

 

We had a wonderful Christmas and New Year’s, starting with a Christmas Eve service at our church, followed by a party at Hannah’s, and then a quiet evening at our house with just Krista, Jem, Zach, and me.  Christmas Day was a lot of fun with brunch at our house and visits from most of the local families sometime during the day. 

 

Since some people couldn’t make it here on Christmas, we had a whole local family get-together on December 28 to exchange gifts, eat good food, and enjoy each other’s company.

 

On New Year’s Eve, Ella hosted a party and the adventurous stayed up there to welcome the New Year.  Krista and I went home around 9pm.  I made it to midnight (barely) at home but I was by myself.  It was all great, however, and a fun time celebrating.

 

Our biggest event of the past month was the wedding of our son, Zach, and his bride, Brandi on January 11.  Everyone made it home for that, and it was a beautiful wedding and a fun reception.  My grandson, Alex, said, “I never knew a wedding could form into that kind of party!”  And my granddaughter, Josie, asked Kayla, “Can you and Levi get married tomorrow so our whole family can just stay?”  The only picture I have is me holding Faye at the reception, but you can contact Zach or Brandi if you want to see wedding pictures.



 

The day after the wedding, everyone (including the bride and groom!) came to our house for a brunch and to spend time together since we’d all been too busy having a wedding to really get to talk.  It was a crazy, chaotic, loud, and fantastic time with all 42 of us crowded into our not very big house!  And we got to watch the Bills crush the Broncos (sorry to any of you Broncos fans getting this)!  By God’s grace, everyone made it here and home again safely, and we are so glad to have had this time together.

 

Happy New Year to you all!

 

Wednesday, December 18, 2024

December 2024 Update

We’ve had a few adventures in the past month!

 

My son, Levi, has a pretty serious girlfriend named Kayla.  We’ve been really enjoying getting to know her, and I had an opportunity this past month with them both.  Kayla works as a phlebotomist (the people that draw blood) and they move her around a lot to whatever lab needs her that week.  Tangent:  I actually went to my lab here in Brockport late in October in preparation for a follow-up with my Urologist, and she was working there that week and drew my blood!  She did a great job, getting it on the first poke!  I’ve had some take up to 5 pokes (that was awful), so I was impressed!  Anyway, returning from that tangent, a few weeks ago, she was assigned to a lab in Webster near where I work, so we arranged to meet (Levi, Kayla, and I) at a restaurant for lunch.  We went really fancy and chose Wendy’s.  Actually, as Wendy’s restaurants go, this one is pretty fancy with a gas fireplace and nice dine-in area.  It was fun to get to talk with them and enjoy lunch together.

 

As I mentioned last month, Krista and I went to Kentucky to meet Cai and Amy’s new daughter, Ava, and spend some time with them and big sister Dorothy.  We also got to see Amelia and Ben while we were there, so it was a great trip.  Dorothy loves having company and didn’t even have to warm up to us—she just loved us immediately.

Cai, Amy, Dorothy, and Ava

Dorothy and her Mommom


The expectant parents, Ben and Amelia, and their dog Regulus

 

For Thanksgiving, all the local families got together at our house, so that was a loud and exciting time with 12 adults and 9 children.  As usual, everyone contributed lots of excellent food, which we were still eating a week later, but that’s 100% OK with me!

 

I mentioned that Amelia was expecting too and her baby was due on December 7.  However, that one is just too comfortable inside her mother, and we are still waiting.  I keep thinking of the song “Come Thou Long Expected Jesus” and applying it to this baby, but not out loud because I’m afraid it might be sacrilegious.  Anyway, Krista flew down to Kentucky again to be with them for a week from 12/7 – 14, hoping she would be there for the baby’s birth, but God had other plans.  We know He knows best, so we’re continuing to trust Him and are just praying the baby comes soon.  Mom and baby are still healthy so that’s good, and the midwife has started Amelia on some herbal treatments that may help move things along.  Thanks for praying with us!  I’ve been holding off on making and sending our Christmas card to include this baby, so if any of you were wondering where our card is, it will be there!

 

This past Saturday, we went to Ansa and Alma’s Christmas Dance recital.  They both did really well and were the cutest kids up there (in my totally unbiased opinion).  It was fun to see the results of their hard work.

 

Finally, we had a special visit yesterday with two of Krista’s siblings.  Her brother Jonathan and his wife, Kathy, are home from Papua New Guinea (where they are missionaries with Wycliffe) for a few weeks to see some family, and they arranged to meet here at our house.  Krista’s sister, Conny, and her husband, Brian, came too, and we had a fantastic time sharing a meal and talking with them for a few hours.  We forgot to take pictures before Conny and Brian left so you’ll have to just trust me that they were here too, but I do have a picture with Jonathan, Kathy, Krista, and myself.



I hope you enjoy times these days with friends and family, and, more importantly, I hope you know the baby whose birth we’re celebrating as your own Savior.

 

Merry Christmas and Happy New Year!

 

Monday, November 18, 2024

November 2024 Update

Happy November!

 

There’s not a lot that I can think of to talk about from this past month, but one item especially is worth an update!

 

Krista and I attended a Marriage Conference our church held on October 18-19 that was lead by a couple named Dave and Ann Wilson.  Krista’s father’s name was David Wilson, so that made it sort of interesting for us.  Anyway, the conference was really great, and even though our marriage is pretty amazing, it’s always good to evaluate and see where it can be improved.  We’re actually implementing one idea we got from there of just doing a quick prayer together each morning as we leave for work, and I think that is helping us focus on God each day as a couple.  Dave and Ann have several fun videos online if you want to check them out.

 

Saturday night, October 19, which also happened to be my 65th birthday—I’m officially old now since I can and have registered for Medicare 😊—my son Zach hosted a Halloween Movie Night at his apartment.  I don’t think I mentioned here that God led him to a great apartment through a family at our church, so he is now ready to start a home with his fiancée Brandi after they marry in January.  Anyway, we got together there and had a fun snack and not very scary movie night.

 

The big news this month is the birth of our 18th grandchild, Ava Grace, on November 3, to parents Cai and Amy Matthews and sister Dorothy.  We are very excited to visit them this coming weekend to meet her and see Cai, Amy, Dorothy, and Amelia and Ben who live nearby.


Ava with her big sister Dorothy

That’s it for November, but with this Kentucky trip, Thanksgiving, and another grandchild coming soon, December’s update should be full! 

Friday, October 18, 2024

October 2024 Update

October greetings!  I mentioned last month that I discovered I had inguinal hernias.  I saw the surgeon, and he recommended I get them repaired.  So, I had a third surgery in just two years on October 2 to get that done.  Afterward, he said it was a good decision because the left side was a large double hernia and the right side was an even larger hernia.  I now have two new scars, but the recovery is going well thanks to a lot of ice packs, and, of course, to God’s grace to me.  Thank you to all who prayed!

 

We rejoiced this past month on September 22 with my future daughter-in-law, Brandi, as she publicly declared her faith in Jesus and was baptized.  You can go to her church’s YouTube channel at Sunday Morning Service 09/22/2024 and listen to her testimony (starting at about 39:30).

 

The final event to report on this month was my barbershop chorus’s participation in our district’s annual Contest on September 28.  We didn’t do really well, but we had fun, and I’m glad I got to be a part of it.  We sang an upbeat song called It’s a Brand New Day, and then the slower song Georgia On My Mind, which I’m sure a lot of you have heard before.  Ray Charles did a famous version of it.  Here’s the big question about Georgia that we debated in our chorus:  Was it written about the state of Georgia or a woman named Georgia?  If you look up that question online, you’ll find both answers coming from the author of the lyrics and the composer of the music, so who really knows.  We just know that it wasn’t written about the country of Georgia in Eastern Europe.

 

I guess that’s it for October, so we’ll talk again, Lord willing, in November.

 

Wednesday, September 18, 2024

September 2024 Update

This month I have four things to tell you about.

 

First, my daughter, Hannah, was really good at planning fun summer activities for her family, especially because she was off work for the summer.  She invited us along on several of them, and the one this month was a canal cruise on the Erie Canal starting in Lockport.  It was very interesting and fun to ride on the canal through the locks in Lockport and to hear the funny stories the boat captain entertained us with.

Abigail and her daughter, Maya

Krista and Emmett

Alma and Abigail

The Mickles (Hannah, Kevin, Ansa, Alex--Alma was in the last picture)


Second, my son, Levi, completed his training and graduated as a deputy jailer for Monroe County.  We’re proud of his hard work and think he looks really sharp in his uniform.  Sorry, ladies, he has a girlfriend.  Here are some pictures from the graduation ceremony.

He said he was laughing because his cohort had a really hard time with his pin


Levi is fifth from right (in the back row)


Third, we heard about this a while ago, but I never announced it here:  we have another grandbaby on the way!  My daughter, Carissa, is expecting her third child, so that’s grandchild #20 on the way!  We are super excited for her, Matt, and big siblings, Ruby and Milo.

 

Finally, some not so happy news in the form of another physical issue for me.  I discovered last month that I have inguinal hernias.  After doing some research, we found that this is a common complication of having a prostatectomy.  It’s not super painful, but it is uncomfortable, and I am scheduled to see a general surgeon this Friday to determine the best path forward.  Thanks for praying for me, and I’ll let you know the plan in October’s update.


Online bonus!  Another example of Hannah's great party planning was this past Sunday.  We had a final summer picnic at her house.  I was holding Emmett, but Ansa wanted to have a turn with him, and since they were so cute, I took their picture.  And Truman had a cute photobomb to make the picture even better!

 


Monday, August 19, 2024

August 2024 Update

It seems like it’s been a busy month, but as I go through it, I can really only find two things to update you about.

 

Our major excitement this past month was the joy of having every one of my kids and their families here for about a week in late July.  Unfortunately, since I just started with a new employer as I mentioned last month, I had no vacation days to take, but my boss kindly let me work from home some of the time, and I got to enjoy everyone in the evenings and on the weekends also.  We shared great meals, celebrated birthdays, took trips to the beach and to our local amusement park, and took lots of pictures.  I’ll only share one, but it's worth the look.

All 17 grandkids with the blankets Krista made them!

 

The other event this past month that Krista and I were privileged to take part in was her niece, Kristina’s, wedding on August 11.  It had originally been scheduled for August 4, but poor Kristina got Covid and had to postpone.  God was good to her in that she was able to use the same venue and time, just postpone a week.  The weather was a little threatening for an outdoor wedding, but we just had a few raindrops when the bride entered, and then things calmed down.  The wedding was beautiful as was the bride, and we really enjoyed getting to be a part of her celebration.

 

Thanks for reading, and we’ll talk in September!

 

 

 

Thursday, July 18, 2024

July 2024 Update

As I’m preparing this update and thinking back over the month, it seems like a lot happened!  I only have one picture to put here, but it’s a good one and well worth it, if I say so myself.

 

Once she was sure I was OK after my surgery (more on my progress later), Krista took a trip to Kortney’s house in Minnetonka, Minnesota.  She loves going there because it’s very relaxing and undemanding, and she gets to spend time with Kortney’s family that we don’t get to see enough.

 

As far as my surgery update, I had my follow-up appointment with my doctor’s Nurse Practitioner, and she released me to drive and eat what I wanted, although she did suggest taking it slowly.  I’ve tried to be good, and things are going well.  I’m still trying to eat 6 smaller meals a day instead of three larger ones, and that seems to be working.  I haven’t gained back the weight I lost (10 pounds), and I feel good.  As a matter of fact, it’s time right now for my mid-morning banana, so excuse me a few minutes while I eat that…

 

That was delicious.  Now where was I.  Oh yeah, my post-surgery status.  She also recommended I try weaning myself off of my daily omeprazole which I’ve been taking for years to prevent acid reflux and swallowing difficulties.  I’m now off that and so far so good.  I am thanking God for His goodness to me and praying that things continue to go well.

 

I may have mentioned here before that I’ve worked at Xerox since 1997, but I’ve never actually worked for Xerox.  I work for a company that Xerox contracted with to provide them their computer support.  In 1997 I started with EDS, then EDS sold my position people to DecisionOne.  Later they decided that was a mistake so they brought us back to EDS.  Then EDS got bought out by HP, so I worked for HP.  Xerox didn’t like that their biggest competitor now was a major service provider for them, so they transitioned us to ACS that they had just acquired.  Then they renamed ACS to Xerox Services, and that’s the closest I ever got to actually working for Xerox.  That didn’t last long before the contract went to a French company called Atos.  Then Atos got underbid by Wipro, so I worked for Wipro.  Now the Wipro contract has ended, and I work for Tata Consultancy Services as of July 1.  So, I’ve been doing basically the same job since 1997 but I’ve changed who my paycheck is from nine times.  Because of the new employer, I’ve been having to do onboarding training and adjusting to new procedures, all during one of the busiest times of my work year.  But I made it!  At least so far.  I have a couple of things yet to complete, but they haven’t defeated me yet!

 

On July 4, as we’ve done every year for the past several, Krista, Jem, and I went to Olcott for the Rhodes reunion.  The Rhodes family is Krista’s mom’s side of the family.  It’s always great to visit a park on Lake Ontario, and we had good food and a good visit.

 

On the way home, my car decided it was done with its muffler and dropped it.  By God’s grace, I was able to use a bungee cord in my trunk to fasten it up so we could get the rest of the way home, and my excellent mechanic got it fixed for me without breaking my bank account.

 

The best news of this past month and the subject of the picture mentioned before is the birth of our 17th grandchild!  Emmett Gregory Shaw was born to my daughter, Abigail, her husband, Bernie, and their daughter, Maya, on July 9.  He’s a beautiful boy, and we are all praising God for him.


My bride and my newest grandchild

For the past three years, our church has had a Talent Night on a Wednesday in the summer, and they did that again on July 10.  Since I like embarrassing myself at these things, a friend and I sang a song called Excuses, that humorously looks at all the excuses we make to miss church.  It went pretty well, and we had fun doing it, so that’s a win.  If you want to look up the song on YouTube, you can find professionals doing it if you search “Excuses Kingsmen.”

 

Finally, we had another family reunion this past month, this time with the Wilson side of Krista’s family (her dad’s side).  That was also on Lake Ontario at Lighthouse Christian Camp in Barker.  I know some of you have lots of memories of that campground, and we always enjoy going there and seeing the family.  Two of Krista’s brothers (Terrelle and Dick) from out of state came as well as her two sisters (Conny and Nanita) that live in New York, so that was fun to see the five siblings together.

 

I also ran into one of my old college roommates at the campground, Dick Dickinson.  He’s a retired pastor and was preaching there this month, but he (and his wife) graciously interrupted his sermon prep to spend several minutes talking with Krista and me.  It was great to catch up with him.

 

So, as you can see, God is very good to me, giving me gifts of health and friends and family and employment, and hopefully you are encouraged by His goodness to me to consider all He does for you, and we’ll talk again in August.